Life during Pregnancy: Third Trimester

Hello, Ribsters! 

As I approach eight months, I would like to share some thoughts on being pregnant after seven years. 

I do not care how many children you have; pregnancy is not easy. Many have said, "You have two already, this should be a walk in the park!" Well, next time you can be my surrogate :) Seriously, this is my first pregnancy working. I am a newly wed. Carmelo and Ajani are at vulnerable ages whereas they need attention, advice, guidance. Things that as a teacher, I have little patience for by the time I get home.

Am I the only one who has older children that take advantage of your huge belly and constant sleepiness? It feels as if I am talking to a wall at times with the boys. Other times, they are so concerned with what I ate, how much I have eaten in interest to what I am going to feed them. The other day, my youngest asked "Mom, are we crazy to be having a third baby?" My response was " Are you going to be up at night feeding your brother? Will you be changing diapers? Cleaning,  will you be doing any cleaning?" Ajani may have changed his mind about asking his original question: "Are we crazy for having a third baby?"

Crazy is not the word I sought after but, bold. We are brave to have tried for another child with all that is going on in politics, society, even in our personal lives. Although, I  would not trade this little guy in for the world! I would go through all the sickness again just to feel these little kicks, turns, and pokes. My answer: No, we are not crazy Ajani. We are blessed to have conceived your brother; I can not wait for you and Carmelo to meet him!

There are many things to consider following giving birth, especially with this being our third child. Birth control? Will we further expand our family (everyone wants to see a little Shay)? I am just going with the flow right now. Third Trimesters are the time where we should be relaxing, staying active as it helps the birthing process which I mentioned in Life during Pregnancy: 2nd Trimester.

Anyone else anxious to see their little bundle of joy?
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- Shay Nefeteria

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